Someone Worth Missing

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend been living a few hours away from me for 9 weeks now. We have been together 2 years and 2 months, but best friends for almost 3 years. I am in my final year of studying in the uni we both went to and he has started his Masters in London. I am hoping to move to London in July 2018, and then we’ll be together. I am finding it really hard being apart because I’m getting used to him not being at uni whereas he has moved somewhere completely new. I miss him all the time – but I have stopped myself from being needy. But I’ve sent him sexy snaps a few times and he doesn’t always respond to them – is this worrying? [read more]

What Comes Between Us

Dear Miss U,
I ended up having drinks with another guy. Even though nothing happened and I didn’t mean for it to happen, it really bothered my boyfriend. I’ve apologized and told him that I want to make things right and earn his trust back… [read more]

Unsure Partners

Dear Miss U,
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. I care for her so much and she cares for me just as much. She called me the other night and broke up with me. She’s telling me that the distance is too much, I got really sad and just accepted it without argument. It’s been a few days and I’m trying to get her back. I’m broken without her, I’m used to texting her every moment of my day. I’ve texted her every single day since I met her. I think I love her… [read more]

Relationship Pie-namics.

Dear Miss U,
We’ve been together for almost two years, and our primary way of communication is Skype or Facebook. It’s been pretty good, but the last months have been hard. She says she doesn’t like the awkward silences we have on Skype, that the conversation doesn’t “flow naturally.” This didn’t use to happen. I’m an introvert and always had trouble making conversations, but I think she recently got tired of the fact that she’s almost always the one that initiates them… [read more]

Life = Love

Dear Miss U,

My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for 6 months now. We met online, and met up in person 4 months ago. He is a hopeless romantic (life = love for him), and spends a lot of money to travel from Washington to Minnesota to see me. His family is not rich, and I feel like he’s spending too much money coming to visit me. I love seeing him, but I am afraid he is spending too much money on me and traveling… [read more]

Faith in the Future

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend and I have always had an amazing relationship. We know we work well together and we always talk about our future together. We’ve been together for 2 years now, and about a month ago I found out he cheated on me a few months back. I broke up with him and did not speak to him for over 2 weeks, but he BEGGED and BEGGED to speak to me… [read more]

Growing in Love

Dear Miss U,
I met him on holiday and we got along really well. I live in England and he lives in Canada. He says he really wants to be with me and I really feel the same. We can’t see each other until next summer; we are going to backpack for a week. I’m missing him already and it’s been a couple of days. Can I keep at this? Book this holiday and keep messaging/calling/writing letters until then? [read more]

Pressure-less Progress

Dear Miss U,
Our situation is different. We met on vacation and kissed. But there was so much chemistry and so many sparks. It wasn’t just a fling for either of us. I know it sounds stupid, but I want this to work. And I want to bring up face timing, or Skyping or even just calling. But I don’t know how and I don’t know if it would be too much. What do you think? And how should I bring it up?? [read more]

More Than Messages

Dear Miss U,
I went to his city to go meet him a year and a half into our relationship but at the last minute he cancelled and told me his mom wouldn’t let him (he didn’t have a car). I find myself getting sick and tired of seeing my phone screen; it often gets boring. He says he will come prom day and when I graduate, but it’s a long ways away and I don’t know if I should wait anymore… [read more]

Control Thyself

Dear Miss U,
I definitely have trust issues and I cannot go a day without talking about his ex. I also feel like he has changed and doesn’t care like he used to do before. He says he hasn’t changed and I should try to understand him. Both of us have met each other’s family and they approve. In 1 year he’ll be going to England to continue his studies. And I’m afraid that he’ll find better although he keeps reassuring me that he loves me… [read more]