Dear Miss U,
Recently, I’ve been seeing a gal in a long distance new relationship. 3 hours away. She came out of a bad relationship about 7 months ago, and still cries over it, somewhat. She says she is all done with him. Also, she has a 17 yr old daughter that is having life problems and causing her to be committed to her 24/7. We get along great. She told me she needs to move slow… [read more]

Dear Miss U,
I met a guy a while ago and we started liking each other and then decided we wanted to be together, however, we’re literally continents apart and we decided that when I finished high school I would enter a college in his country. It was all going great but suddenly he said that even though he wants to be with me it’s killing him to wait this long and he said the only way to save our relationship is for me to go there right now. I don’t have that kind of money and there’s no way my parents would give it to me, but I love him and I don’t want to lose him… [read more]

Dear Miss U,
…I don’t feel like there’s any passion in anything we do anymore, our relationship has fallen into a routine of mundane “how was your day” type conversation that isn’t really anything meaningful – at least to me it isn’t. Where before I used to send her love notes and stuff that made her smile and break out into butterflies, she now just seems to dismiss them or altogether ignore them… [read more]

Dear Miss U,
…I’m in college and he is working full time and I had previously said I would come and visit for an extended amount of time over winter break. However, he is struggling severely with money (I’m not doing so well myself, being a college student) and he just started this job, so it would be difficult to get time off to spend with me. I would be stuck spending most of the day at home waiting for him until 8pm. Recently, I told him that I won’t be able to come because I can’t afford it and I would rather wait to spend the money on a ticket when he can get more time off. The problem is he is really upset now… [read more]

Dear Miss U,
…That being said, as I miss him more he seems to be pushing me away, talking to me less, not making any conversation, and rarely initiating phone calls or any form of contact with me. I like to brush this off as him being busy, but being left to feel lonely and pushed out simply makes me question whether it’s worth putting myself through the emotional trauma I suffered last year. I try to openly communicate with him about this it seems to push him away further… [read more]

Dear Miss U,
My boyfriend lives in India and I’m from Slovenia. So when we started dating I asked him if we could Facetime so my parents could meet him. And he refused. He said he isn’t a family person. What can I do about it? And how can I tell my parents that we are dating? I know they won’t approve but I love him so freaking much! [read more]

Dear Miss U,
…He’s started constantly saying “I want sex” even after we invested in long distance sex toys and have webcam sessions when need be. He says it isn’t enough and he “just needs sex.” I’ve made him aware I would not be okay with him sleeping with other people to get his fix and find it extremely upsetting every time he suggests it… [read more]