Needs and Expectations

Dear Miss U,

So I’ve been with this guy for about 4 months, but after one month he broke up with me and I had no idea why. Two weeks of us “just being friends” goes by and he confesses that he broke it off because of guilt. He had cheated (actually had sex with another girl). And blamed it on temptation…

Do It!

Dear Miss U,

Basically, I’ve been friends with this guy for about a year. Since the first time I met him, we really hit it off and were practically inseparable. Somewhere down the line, my feelings for him changed and I wanted to be more than friends. However, he is transferring schools…

Got Troubles

Dear Miss U,

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half, and we love each other to bits! I am in Toronto (his home town) for university, meaning that I am traveling back to the other side of the country for the four months of summer. Doesn’t seem that bad, right? Wrong…

In Need

Dear Miss U,
…We have always been really good at dealing with being long distance, but now, for me, it is getting harder and it’s me who is having trouble with this, he is perfectly fine knowing I’m his.I am missing him more and more every day. We used to talk every day and now we don’t talk as much because he has been working a lot. He is growing up and acting like his age and doing things that he needs to do as an adult. I am having trouble doing anything. I do community college right now until I transfer. I don’t have a job and I don’t really do anything productive anymore because I think so much about him that it makes it hard for me to get my mind off of it and do something. [read more]

Worry Less, Talk More

Dear Miss U,

Well my boyfriend has a best friend since they were two and I have a feeling she likes him. Now he’s told me he simply sees her as a friend but since she has the distance between me and him to her advantage I don’t know what to do…

The Uncommitted

Dear Miss U,

I’ll try to make this short. LDR 4 years, I had a few health problems and couldn’t move right away. He was wonderful ad we were very much in love. We encouraged each other in many ways. He wanted to attend school, I had his back and vice versa…

Less or More?

Dear Miss U,

I’ve been in a relationship with my partner for 3 years this coming August. We’re over 3500 miles apart, with a time difference of 6 hours, and we can only see each other once or twice a year. We talk every day, and I felt we’ve always had things to talk about. Lately though…

Too Much Love

Dear Miss U,

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 years now. He was my first love and we used to be very much in love in school. But when we moved to different continents to pursue college, my feelings for him started to diminish. I think it was because I realized didn’t want to settle down…

Treading Softly

Dear Miss U,

I met my significant other on a dating website about 6 months ago and decided to be in a LDR two months ago. Everything has been great between us so far, we’ve sent each other letters, try to talk everyday if possible. I’m planning on making the 9 hour drive…

Survival & U

Dear Miss U,

My boyfriend and I met online on deviantart when I was 15 and I’m reaching a point where I’m feeling really troubled and anxious about our relationship. This is my first real relationship and I want it to last…